Erasing woman's individuality
Being an eastern woman I always feel myself a puppet whose threads are in the hands of man who brings you up, be it your father, after father who is your guardian as brother or who is the determiner of your life after marriage as husband or who will order you in your old age as son . I haven't seen a character of woman participating in society as "WOMAN" , why we impose a man on her who is not her friend as father or who is not a protector as brother or who is not a partner as husband or who is not a caretaker as son but a dictator who will not ask from her but force her to do what he wants because he is not interested in her will , wish or desire. I don't know what feminism is but I do know this is against humanity . Why eastern men don't consider woman a human ? Leaving behind rights of females , let's talk about rights of humans. Is this justifiable not to allow someone to decide about her/his future ? Is this fair to keep someone in cage without any reason? Is this perfectly fine to humiliate someone because he/she depends on you socially and physically not powerful enough to fight with you?
Every sensible person will agree to this that all above mentioned acts are against humanity but you can see all this happening around you . If we consider erasing someone's individuality a crime then I am living in a society where every second man is doing this crime. Just because she depends on you for her cloth , shelter and food , it doesn't mean to treat her like an animal, infact you created this dependence by not allowing her to stand on her own foot. And stop giving this illogical and absurd excuse that women are weak creatures both mentally as well as physically that's why men are leaders . Let me remind you here If women were mentally weak , they wouldn't have been able to bear mental torture by men and if they'd been physically weak, they wouldn't have been able to give birth to and raise generations.
I would like to request all men reading this, if you really want to become a leader then also act like a leader . Leaders don't force and impose on others to follow them but their character , posture , gesture , thinking , behavior and every little act compels to follow them .
Conquering her heart is way better than ruling her life.
(Zainab Malik )
Being an eastern woman I always feel myself a puppet whose threads are in the hands of man who brings you up, be it your father, after father who is your guardian as brother or who is the determiner of your life after marriage as husband or who will order you in your old age as son . I haven't seen a character of woman participating in society as "WOMAN" , why we impose a man on her who is not her friend as father or who is not a protector as brother or who is not a partner as husband or who is not a caretaker as son but a dictator who will not ask from her but force her to do what he wants because he is not interested in her will , wish or desire. I don't know what feminism is but I do know this is against humanity . Why eastern men don't consider woman a human ? Leaving behind rights of females , let's talk about rights of humans. Is this justifiable not to allow someone to decide about her/his future ? Is this fair to keep someone in cage without any reason? Is this perfectly fine to humiliate someone because he/she depends on you socially and physically not powerful enough to fight with you?
Every sensible person will agree to this that all above mentioned acts are against humanity but you can see all this happening around you . If we consider erasing someone's individuality a crime then I am living in a society where every second man is doing this crime. Just because she depends on you for her cloth , shelter and food , it doesn't mean to treat her like an animal, infact you created this dependence by not allowing her to stand on her own foot. And stop giving this illogical and absurd excuse that women are weak creatures both mentally as well as physically that's why men are leaders . Let me remind you here If women were mentally weak , they wouldn't have been able to bear mental torture by men and if they'd been physically weak, they wouldn't have been able to give birth to and raise generations.
I would like to request all men reading this, if you really want to become a leader then also act like a leader . Leaders don't force and impose on others to follow them but their character , posture , gesture , thinking , behavior and every little act compels to follow them .
Conquering her heart is way better than ruling her life.
(Zainab Malik )
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