*Loving a strong woman*

Men are always considered to be strong both physically and emotionally and women are labelled as weak ones in both aspects .

Men always have this thing in mind that women should depend on them socially, sexually, financially ,and  emotionally . They find it hard to accept woman fulfilling all her needs by her own self or if she is not getting all , but she is contented and satisfied with what she has and what has not . She is managing all her issues nicely , they find it disgrace to men's power. So, they always want women to ask for help from them  . They feel good by helping women . I don't know why, but it's a psychological fact .
As a society we have given all emotional responsibilities to women and all social responsibilities to men, but this can be done with mutual cooperation. Both women and men can share each others burden .
But men will find it difficult seeing women working in a society shoulder to shoulder with them .
 I agree with this argument that both are necessary for one another , but in some aspects .
Men only depend on women for their sexual and emotional needs , but women depend on them for food , clothing , shelter , social security ,respect, education, and list goes on.
And if woman tries to fulfil her these above mentioned needs by herself men would not accept it.

So , loving a strong woman is somehow difficult for an ordinary man because
 he wouldn't be able to digest her capabilities and strengths including intellect, will power , emotional blance  and socially sound way of life.
It's a mind set found in general public .

(Zainab Malik )